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Tuesday, 11 August 2020 15:22

Ideal vs Reality

Coaching Thought:

Very often, our biggest stress in life is created by us wanting reality to be different to what it actually is. We waste a lot of time and brain energy wishing things were different. This builds inner tension and leaves us little energy to deal with and face what's in front of us. Either we need to take action and change the situation or we need to face challenges, deal with them and move on.

Coaching Questions:

How well do you deal with the day to day realities of your life?
How does wanting things to be different affect you?
How could you be easier with dealing what is?

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